Saturday, April 26, 2008

No sex please we're parents



Two Australian mothers called Anita and Hannah are seeing our insights into sex after parenting for a book they are about to write.
They say "We are looking at how and why things change in the bedroom once the pitter patter of little feet have entered your home - and how we as women can reclaim the sexual goddess within! "
How and why things have changed in the bedroom? We don't need a book for that. Eavesdrop at any mothers' lunch and the answer is the same. If action in the bedroom has dropped off it's because we are exhausted. Given the choice between sleep and sex, sleep wins every time.
And there's also the small matter of opportunity. You can hardly sneak off for a bit of afternoon delight while the kids are watching the Disney Channel in the next room.
But if you have other ideas, the questions the researchers are interested in are listed below. Send your responses to: currievirgo@gmail.com

QUESTIONS FOR THE LADIES…

Name: (for our records only… these will not be published)

Age:

Marital Status:

Number of Child/Children:

Ages of Child/Children:



What is your perception of sexy?

How often do you and your partner have sex? (Thought we’d ask the loaded question 1st, pardon the pun).

Do you think this is above or below the average for Mums and Dads?

Do you have the desire to have sex as much now as before you had children?

Do you feel sexy now that you’re a Mummy? (If yes, how have you maintained/achieved this? If not, why do you feel this way?)

Did you feel sexy before having children?

Do you see yourself as sexy? If yes, why?

What is your perception of sexy?

What do you find sexy about your partner?

Has your perception of your partner’s sexiness changed since having children? If yes, why?

If anything, what do you think your husband can do to make you feel sexier?

What do you think you could do to be more sexy?

Do you think there is a need for this type of book?

Further comments:



QUESTIONS FOR THE DADS…


Name (for records only, will not be published):

Age:

Marital Status:

Number of Child/Children:

Ages of Child/Children:


How often do you and your partner have sex? (Thought we’d ask the loaded question 1st, pardon the pun)

Do you think this is above or below the average for Mums and Dads?

Do you have the desire to have sex as much now as before you had children?

What is your perception of sexy?

What do you find sexy about your partner?

Has your perception of your partner’s sexiness changed since having children? i.e. did she appear sexier before children/during pregnancy/after having children? If yes, why?

If anything, what do you think your wife could do to be sexier?

Do you see yourself as sexy? If yes, why?

What do you think you could do to be more sexy?

Do you think there is a need for this type of book?

Further comments:

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